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Motherhood changed me altogether

Bismillah My journey so far as a mother is compelling me to write a few words about the strongest bond ever named ‘’MOTHERHOOD’’. Well going back to my past, when I was about to get married even I had dreamt a lot about being a mother but then I think I was too immature because for me it was just an emotional feeling mixed with joy, pain of labor, making your husband a proud father and getting a new doll to play with. I never realized how big a responsibility Motherhood is until I really did experience. I guess it’s somewhat same for all young mothers. My daughter is just 2, I know all mothers reading are thinking it’s not yet time for me to write about it. But trust me I have changed a lot and I want to share the feeling with all mothers and mothers to be. Before being a mother of course we are all so independent, we have time for household works, for browsing, for home facials, for chatting, for prayers and Quran, for shopping, for gatherings etc. The first day as a mother I r...

Rediscovering yourself, in the light of Islam

Rediscover yourself, in the light of Islam Giving up is easy. Wake up to the NEW YOU now. Life is too short and the world too fast-paced. In trying to keep up with the demands of the world, we women tend to forget ourselves. But the fact is that we have a big role to play in the upbringing of a healthy generation. In an age when everyone wants to reach for the skies and are ready to do anything for it, let us keep our desires in check with Islamic aspirations and work hard to reach  far beyond  the skies! And remember, in this race for self-improvement, YOU are your best competitor. Here, I try to hash out a few simple ideas to rediscover the real YOU. Inner strength or faith is the primary necessity of every woman. Every creation of Allah is beautiful and so am I. Not this down in your mind. Also, remember that Allah says, “I am as My slave thinks of Me”*  *Sahih Al Bukhaari #7405 Smile Here we come to the most ideal and definitely simple way to...

He Still Loves You

He still loves you Every marriage has its highs and lows but remember that the concept of ‘romance’ is different from true love. Every woman feels a dip in her married life at one time or another. It is quite natural but it becomes a threat when you continue in that mode and fall deep into the negative practice of questioning the love in your marriage. If you are struggling to find the lost romance in your life just remember it is still there. The only thing is that you cannot see it. Here are a few signs you might be missing when you forget that he still loves you: We fail to realize that when he teases you about your headaches or backaches, he is actually acknowledging your dedication towards the family. He waited for you to wake up to get his morning tea so that your sleep is not disturbed or may be he doesn’t know to make it  . If you have people telling you after a few years of marriage that “all men change”, keep them away. Believe in your man. He...